For Highly Sensitive People, holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas
can bring sensory overwhelm
The holiday season is a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration — but for Highly Sensitive People (HSPs), it can also bring sensory overwhelm. Bright lights, loud gatherings, and endless social demands can leave HSPs feeling drained. With a few thoughtful strategies, you can enjoy the magic of the season while protecting your energy and well-being.
1. Plan Ahead and Set Boundaries
Before the holidays, outline your schedule and decide how much time you can realistically spend at events. Politely communicate boundaries, such as leaving gatherings early or skipping activities that feel too overwhelming.
Tip: Create a “safe exit plan” if you need to step away.
2. Curate a Comforting Environment
If you’re hosting or participating in gatherings, bring elements of comfort. Wear soft, cozy clothing, and bring items like noise-canceling headphones or a weighted blanket to create a sensory buffer.
Tip: Dim lighting and calming scents like lavender can soothe overstimulated senses.
3. Take Strategic Breaks
During parties or dinners, find moments to step outside or retreat to a quiet room to recharge. Even five minutes of silence can help you reset.
Tip: Let the host know you might need occasional breaks — they’ll likely appreciate your honesty.
4. Practice Mindful Eating
Holiday meals can be overwhelming with strong flavors and endless options. Focus on eating slowly, savoring each bite, and choosing foods that bring you comfort.
Tip: Stick to familiar dishes if new flavors feel overstimulating.
5. Use Grounding Techniques
If you start to feel overwhelmed, grounding exercises can help. Deep breathing, focusing on physical sensations (like your feet on the ground), or holding a calming object can bring relief.
Tip: Keep a small, soothing item like a smooth stone or stress ball in your pocket.
6. Limit Your Exposure to Overwhelming Stimuli
Holiday music, bustling malls, and flashing decorations can be overstimulating. Shop online, visit stores during quieter hours, and choose lower-key celebrations when possible.
Tip: Create your own relaxing holiday playlist to balance the sensory overload.
7. Prioritize Post-Activities Recovery
After a busy day, dedicate time to decompress. Read a book, take a warm bath, or meditate to rebalance your energy.
Tip: Schedule downtime after major events to recover and reflect on the moments you enjoyed.
8. Focus on the Joy of Connection
Amid the hustle, focus on meaningful moments with loved ones. Deep conversations and shared laughter can remind you why the holidays are special.
Tip: Seek out one-on-one time with people who make you feel at ease.
Conclusion
The holidays don’t have to be a season of overwhelm for Highly Sensitive People. By setting boundaries, creating a calm environment, and prioritizing self-care, you can embrace the joy of the season while staying grounded and balanced. Celebrate in your way and enjoy the magic of the holidays — on your terms.